Type two

Enneagram Type 2, also known as the Helper or the Giver, tends to avoid feelings of rejection or being seen as unimportant or insignificant. Type 2s often have a strong desire to be needed and valued by others, and may feel hurt or upset if they perceive that their efforts to help or care for others are not appreciated or reciprocated.

To avoid feelings of rejection, Type 2s may engage in behaviors such as over-helping or people-pleasing. They may go out of their way to do things for others, even when it is not necessary or healthy for them to do so, in an effort to gain approval or validation. They may also avoid expressing their own needs or desires, and may struggle with setting boundaries in their relationships.

Type 2s may also avoid conflict or confrontation, as they may fear that expressing disagreement or assertiveness could lead to rejection or conflict in their relationships. They may prioritize harmony and connection over their own needs or opinions, and may struggle with speaking up for themselves or asserting their own boundaries.

In addition, Type 2s may avoid being alone or without support, as they may feel a strong need to be connected to others and to feel needed or valued. They may struggle with being alone or feeling disconnected, and may go out of their way to seek out social interactions or relationships in order to avoid feelings of isolation or rejection.

It is important for Type 2s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid rejection or conflict, and to develop healthy boundaries and self-care practices in order to maintain their own well-being and avoid burnout in their relationships.