Type two

The Enneagram Type 2's lost childhood message is "It is not okay to have your own needs and wants." Type 2s often grew up in environments where they felt that their own needs were not prioritized or acknowledged, and they may have learned to focus on the needs of others as a way to feel valued and loved.

As a result, Type 2s may have developed a pattern of being highly attuned to the needs and feelings of others, often to the point of neglecting their own needs and desires. They may have a tendency to put others' needs before their own, and may have difficulty setting boundaries or saying no.

The lost childhood message of "It is not okay to have your own needs and wants" can be a deeply ingrained belief for Type 2s, and can drive their behavior in relationships and other areas of their life. Understanding and working through this message can be an important part of growth and development for Type 2s, helping them to develop a more balanced and healthy approach to relationships and self-care.