Type TWo

STRESS

When a type two enneagram experiences stress, they can become hyper-focused on meeting the needs of others while neglecting their own. They may become overwhelmed by the pressure to be helpful and supportive, leading to feelings of resentment and exhaustion. Type twos may also struggle with feeling unappreciated or undervalued in their relationships, which can further exacerbate their stress levels.

In extreme cases, type twos under stress may become manipulative or passive-aggressive in their attempts to get their needs met. They may also struggle with setting healthy boundaries, leading to feelings of burnout and resentment.

It's important for type twos to recognize when they are feeling stressed and to prioritize their own self-care and boundaries. This can involve setting limits on the amount of time and energy they devote to others, as well as seeking support and validation from trusted friends and family members.

This is a description of how the enneagram type 2 may experience stress at each of the nine levels:

  1. At Level 1, Twos are healthy and balanced. They feel loved and valued and are able to give generously without any expectations or need for recognition.

  2. At Level 2, Twos start to become more dependent on the positive feedback they receive for their help and support. They may become overly focused on pleasing others and feel resentful when their efforts aren't appreciated or reciprocated.

  3. At Level 3, Twos may become more manipulative in their attempts to win affection and recognition. They may start to use guilt or emotional pressure to get what they want from others, and may become more possessive and jealous in their relationships.

  4. At Level 4, Twos may start to feel more insecure and anxious about their ability to be loved and valued. They may become more controlling and perfectionistic, and may struggle with feeling inadequate or unworthy.

  5. At Level 5, Twos may become more needy and demanding, seeking attention and validation from others to the point of being clingy or suffocating. They may also struggle with boundary-setting and self-care, neglecting their own needs in favor of taking care of others.

  6. At Level 6, Twos may become more angry and resentful, feeling unappreciated and undervalued for their efforts. They may struggle with feelings of betrayal and may become more critical and judgmental of others.

  7. At Level 7, Twos may become more self-sacrificing, putting their own needs and desires aside in favor of serving others. They may also become more passive-aggressive, expressing their resentment and frustration in subtle ways rather than directly addressing their concerns.

  8. At Level 8, Twos may become more manipulative and controlling in their relationships, using their generosity and helpfulness as a way to gain power and influence over others. They may also struggle with codependency and may have difficulty setting boundaries or saying no.

  9. At Level 9, Twos may become more withdrawn and isolated, feeling rejected and unloved by others. They may struggle with feelings of worthlessness and may become more self-pitying and self-destructive.