Type Three

Enneagram Type 3, also known as the Achiever or the Performer, tends to avoid feelings of failure or inadequacy. Type 3s often have a strong drive for success and recognition, and may feel a sense of pressure to constantly prove their worth and competence.

To avoid feelings of failure or inadequacy, Type 3s may engage in behaviors such as overworking or perfectionism. They may set high standards for themselves and push themselves to achieve their goals at all costs, even if it means sacrificing their own well-being or relationships. They may also prioritize their public image or reputation over their own inner values or feelings.

Type 3s may also avoid vulnerability or showing their true emotions, as they may fear that doing so could make them appear weak or inadequate in the eyes of others. They may struggle with expressing their true feelings or opening up about their inner struggles, and may instead focus on presenting a polished and confident image to the world.

In addition, Type 3s may avoid taking on tasks or roles that they feel are beneath them or do not align with their desired image or career path. They may struggle with accepting criticism or feedback that challenges their self-image or competence, and may be resistant to change or adapting to new situations or expectations.

It is important for Type 3s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid feelings of failure or inadequacy, and to develop a more balanced and authentic approach to their goals and relationships. This may involve learning to prioritize their own inner values and needs, cultivating healthy relationships based on genuine connection and vulnerability, and embracing a more flexible and adaptive approach to their career and personal goals.