Type three

It is important to note that all Enneagram types are capable of both healthy and unhealthy behavior, and manipulative behavior is not limited to Type 3. However, Type 3, also known as the Achiever or the Performer, has a tendency to manipulate others in order to achieve their goals and maintain their image.

One way that Type 3s may manipulate others is by presenting a false image of themselves. They may present themselves as more accomplished, successful, or competent than they actually are in order to impress others and gain their approval. This can involve exaggerating their achievements, withholding information about their failures, or outright lying about their accomplishments.

Another way that Type 3s may manipulate others is by using charm and charisma to win people over. They may use their natural charisma to charm others and gain their trust, which can make it easier for them to achieve their goals.

Type 3s may also manipulate others by using competition as a tool. They may set up situations where they can compete with others in order to prove their superiority or establish their dominance. This can create a sense of pressure or tension in the other person, making them more likely to give in to the Type 3's demands.

It is important to note that these manipulative behaviors are not necessarily conscious or malicious on the part of the Type 3. They may stem from a deep-seated need for approval and recognition, and a fear of failure or inadequacy. However, it is important for Type 3s to be aware of these tendencies and work to develop healthier ways of achieving their goals without manipulating others. This can involve being more honest and authentic in their interactions with others, and learning to value themselves based on their own internal standards rather than external achievements or recognition.