TYPE Three

Enneagram Type 3, "The Achiever," may display a particular set of behaviors in relationships. Threes are highly goal-oriented and driven by their desire for success, recognition, and achievement. As a result, they may approach relationships as opportunities to showcase their abilities and accomplishments.

Threes may be highly charismatic and outgoing, often seeking out partners who will support and admire their accomplishments. They may be skilled at presenting themselves in a positive light, and may strive to maintain an image of success and accomplishment in their relationships.

In romantic relationships, Threes may struggle with vulnerability or expressing their true feelings, as they may be focused on maintaining a positive image or avoiding any appearance of weakness. They may be highly competitive and may struggle with sharing the spotlight or allowing their partners to shine.

Threes may also have a strong desire for approval and validation, and may seek out partners who will validate their sense of self-worth and accomplishments. They may struggle with feelings of inadequacy or worthlessness if they feel they are not meeting their own or others' expectations.

Overall, Threes in relationships may be highly driven and focused on success and achievement. While they may struggle with vulnerability and sharing the spotlight, they are also highly charismatic and may be skilled at creating positive and dynamic relationships. It is important for Threes to be aware of their tendency to prioritize success over intimacy, and to make an effort to connect with their partners on a deeper level.