Type Four

Enneagram Type 4, also known as the Individualist or the Romantic, tends to avoid feelings of emptiness or lack of identity. Type 4s often have a strong desire for authenticity and self-expression, and may feel a sense of longing for something deeper or more meaningful in their lives.

To avoid feelings of emptiness or lack of identity, Type 4s may engage in behaviors such as idealizing or romanticizing the past or future. They may be drawn to nostalgia or daydreaming as a way to escape from the present moment and create a sense of meaning or purpose in their lives. They may also seek out unique or unconventional experiences or relationships in an effort to find something that feels more authentic or meaningful to them.

Type 4s may also avoid conformity or fitting in with societal expectations, as they may feel a strong need to be seen as unique or different from others. They may reject mainstream values or beliefs, and may be drawn to alternative or countercultural movements or ideas. They may struggle with feeling misunderstood or out of place in more traditional or conservative settings.

In addition, Type 4s may avoid feelings of inadequacy or being seen as ordinary or unimportant. They may strive for excellence or uniqueness in their creative or personal pursuits, and may feel a sense of disappointment or frustration if they perceive their efforts to be unsuccessful or unappreciated.

It is important for Type 4s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid feelings of emptiness or lack of identity, and to cultivate a more grounded and realistic sense of self. This may involve developing a greater appreciation for the present moment, practicing self-compassion and self-acceptance, and focusing on creating meaningful connections and relationships based on genuine empathy and understanding.