Type four

The Enneagram Type 4's lost childhood message is "You are not seen for who you are." Type 4s often grew up in environments where they felt that their unique qualities and individuality were not acknowledged or valued, and they may have developed a sense of feeling misunderstood or different from others.

As a result, Type 4s may have developed a pattern of seeking out their own individuality and creativity as a way to feel seen and validated. They may have a tendency to focus on their emotions and inner world, and may have a strong desire to express themselves through art, music, or other creative endeavors.

The lost childhood message of "You are not seen for who you are" can be a deeply ingrained belief for Type 4s, and can drive their behavior in relationships and other areas of their life. Understanding and working through this message can be an important part of growth and development for Type 4s, helping them to develop a stronger sense of self and individuality, and a more balanced and healthy approach to relationships and self-expression.