TYPE Four

Enneagram Type 4, "The Individualist," may display a particular set of behaviors in relationships. Fours are driven by their desire for self-expression, individuality, and authenticity. As a result, they may approach relationships with a strong emphasis on emotional connection and intimacy.

Fours may be highly attuned to their own emotions and may seek out partners who are similarly sensitive and emotionally expressive. They may be highly romantic and may enjoy expressing their love and affection through artistic or creative means.

In romantic relationships, Fours may struggle with feelings of longing or a sense of incompleteness. They may have a strong desire for deep emotional connection and may feel disappointed or dissatisfied if their partners do not meet their emotional needs.

Fours may also have a tendency towards self-absorption or self-pity, and may struggle with feelings of jealousy or envy towards their partners. They may be highly sensitive to criticism or rejection and may struggle with feelings of worthlessness or inadequacy if they feel their relationships are not meeting their emotional needs.

Overall, Fours in relationships may be highly emotional and sensitive, valuing deep emotional connection and intimacy. While they may struggle with feelings of longing or self-absorption, they are also highly creative and may bring a unique perspective to their relationships. It is important for Fours to be aware of their tendency towards emotional intensity, and to make an effort to communicate their needs and emotions effectively with their partners.