Type five

It is important to note that all Enneagram types are capable of both healthy and unhealthy behavior, and manipulative behavior is not limited to Type 5. However, Type 5, also known as the Investigator or the Observer, has a tendency to manipulate others in order to maintain their sense of independence and control.

One way that Type 5s may manipulate others is by withholding information. They may hold back important information in order to maintain their sense of control and power in a situation. This can involve withholding their emotions, ideas, or knowledge, which can create a sense of tension or unease in others.

Another way that Type 5s may manipulate others is by avoiding conflict. They may withdraw from a situation or relationship in order to avoid conflict or confrontation. This can create a sense of emotional manipulation in others, as they may feel like they are walking on eggshells in order to avoid triggering the Type 5's withdrawal.

Type 5s may also manipulate others by using their intelligence and knowledge as a tool. They may use their expertise in a certain area to gain influence or control over others. This can involve using technical jargon or complex concepts to create a sense of intellectual superiority, or using their knowledge to manipulate others into doing what they want.

It is important to note that these manipulative behaviors are not necessarily conscious or malicious on the part of the Type 5. They may stem from a deep-seated need for independence and control, and a fear of being overwhelmed or depleted by the demands of others. However, it is important for Type 5s to be aware of these tendencies and work to develop healthier ways of maintaining their independence without manipulating others. This can involve being more open and transparent in their interactions with others, and learning to communicate their needs and boundaries in a more direct and assertive way.