Type seven

Enneagram Type 7, also known as the Enthusiast or the Epicure, tends to avoid feelings of pain or discomfort. Type 7s often have a strong desire for adventure and stimulation, and may prioritize their own enjoyment and pleasure.

To avoid feelings of pain or discomfort, Type 7s may engage in behaviors such as seeking out new and exciting experiences or distractions. They may have a tendency to constantly seek out novelty and stimulation, and may struggle with being present in the moment or dealing with difficult emotions or experiences. They may also be prone to impulsivity or risk-taking behaviors, as a way to avoid feelings of boredom or stagnation.

Type 7s may also avoid commitment or settling down in their relationships or career. They may fear missing out on other opportunities or experiences, and may struggle with the idea of being tied down or limited in their choices. They may also avoid difficult conversations or conflict in their relationships, as a way to maintain their own sense of independence and avoid feelings of discomfort or vulnerability.

In addition, Type 7s may avoid dealing with their own inner pain or discomfort. They may struggle with introspection or self-reflection, and may be hesitant to acknowledge or express their own feelings of sadness, anxiety, or fear. They may also be prone to distraction or avoidance behaviors, such as overindulging in food or alcohol, as a way to numb or escape from their own emotions.

It is important for Type 7s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid feelings of pain or discomfort, and to cultivate a greater sense of mindfulness and emotional awareness in their lives. This may involve learning to be present in the moment and accept their own feelings and experiences, practicing healthy coping mechanisms for difficult emotions, and exploring the deeper emotional aspects of their relationships and personal goals.