Type seven

It is important to note that all Enneagram types are capable of both healthy and unhealthy behavior, and manipulative behavior is not limited to Type 7. However, Type 7, also known as the Enthusiast or the Epicure, has a tendency to manipulate others in order to avoid discomfort or pain and maintain their sense of freedom.

One way that Type 7s may manipulate others is by avoiding difficult emotions or situations. They may use humor, distraction, or positive thinking as a way of avoiding uncomfortable emotions or situations. This can create a sense of emotional manipulation in others, as they may feel like their concerns or emotions are being dismissed or overlooked.

Another way that Type 7s may manipulate others is by seeking constant stimulation or novelty. They may use their enthusiasm and charm to convince others to join them in their pursuits, even if it is not in their best interests. This can create a sense of pressure or obligation in others, as they may feel like they need to keep up with the Type 7's energy and enthusiasm.

Type 7s may also manipulate others by using their charisma and optimism as a tool. They may use their natural charisma to win people over, and their optimistic outlook to convince others that everything will turn out okay. This can create a sense of emotional manipulation in others, as they may feel like their concerns or fears are being dismissed or overlooked.

It is important to note that these manipulative behaviors are not necessarily conscious or malicious on the part of the Type 7. They may stem from a deep-seated fear of being trapped in discomfort or pain, and a desire for freedom and autonomy. However, it is important for Type 7s to be aware of these tendencies and work to develop healthier ways of dealing with difficult emotions or situations without manipulating others. This can involve learning to face and process their emotions in a more direct and honest way, and being more mindful of how their actions may impact others.