Type Eight

Enneagram Type 8, also known as the Challenger or the Protector, tends to avoid feelings of vulnerability or being controlled. Type 8s often have a strong desire for control and power, and may be highly attuned to potential threats to their autonomy or independence.

To avoid feelings of vulnerability or being controlled, Type 8s may engage in behaviors such as asserting dominance or control in their relationships and interactions with others. They may be highly assertive and outspoken, and may struggle with accepting authority or following rules or regulations that they perceive as limiting their own sense of control or power.

Type 8s may also avoid feeling weak or powerless in situations where they feel threatened or challenged. They may prioritize their own strength and resilience, and may struggle with vulnerability or admitting to their own emotions or needs. They may also be prone to anger or aggression as a way to assert their dominance or protect their own sense of power.

In addition, Type 8s may avoid being dependent on others for support or assistance. They may be highly self-sufficient and independent, and may struggle with accepting help or acknowledging their own limitations. They may also be hesitant to express vulnerability or weakness in their relationships, as a way to maintain their own sense of strength and autonomy.

It is important for Type 8s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid feelings of vulnerability or being controlled, and to cultivate a greater sense of empathy and vulnerability in their relationships. This may involve learning to trust and rely on others for support and assistance, practicing emotional expression and vulnerability, and exploring the deeper emotional aspects of their relationships and personal goals.