Type eight

The Enneagram Type 8's lost childhood message is "You cannot trust anyone to protect you or meet your needs." Type 8s often grew up in environments where they felt that they had to be self-sufficient and independent in order to survive, and may have developed a strong need for control and autonomy.

As a result, Type 8s may have developed a pattern of taking charge and asserting themselves in relationships and other areas of their life. They may be highly confident and assertive, but may also struggle with vulnerability and trust.

The lost childhood message of "You cannot trust anyone to protect you or meet your needs" can be a deeply ingrained belief for Type 8s, and can drive their behavior in relationships and other areas of their life. Understanding and working through this message can be an important part of growth and development for Type 8s, helping them to develop a greater sense of emotional vulnerability and trust in their relationships, and a more balanced and healthy approach to self-care and decision-making.