Type eight

It is important to note that all Enneagram types are capable of both healthy and unhealthy behavior, and manipulative behavior is not limited to Type 8. However, Type 8, also known as the Challenger or the Protector, has a tendency to manipulate others in order to maintain their sense of power and control.

One way that Type 8s may manipulate others is by using their forceful and assertive nature as a tool. They may use their strong presence and imposing demeanor to intimidate or coerce others into doing what they want. This can involve using aggressive language, gestures, or behavior to create a sense of power and control in a situation.

Another way that Type 8s may manipulate others is by using their charisma and charm to win people over. They may use their natural magnetism to gain influence or control over others, creating a sense of loyalty or admiration that can be used to manipulate others into doing what they want.

Type 8s may also manipulate others by using their willingness to confront conflict as a tool. They may create or escalate conflict in a situation in order to gain the upper hand or assert their dominance. This can involve using confrontational language or behavior to create a sense of tension or fear in others.

It is important to note that these manipulative behaviors are not necessarily conscious or malicious on the part of the Type 8. They may stem from a deep-seated need for power and control, and a fear of being vulnerable or submissive. However, it is important for Type 8s to be aware of these tendencies and work to develop healthier ways of asserting their power without manipulating others. This can involve learning to communicate in a more collaborative and respectful way, and developing a greater sense of empathy and understanding for others.