Type Nine

Enneagram Type 9, also known as the Peacemaker or the Mediator, tends to avoid feelings of conflict or inner turmoil. Type 9s often have a strong desire for harmony and peace, and may prioritize the needs and feelings of others over their own.

To avoid feelings of conflict or inner turmoil, Type 9s may engage in behaviors such as minimizing their own needs or desires in order to maintain harmony in their relationships. They may be highly accommodating and agreeable, and may struggle with asserting their own boundaries or opinions if it could lead to conflict or disagreement.

Type 9s may also avoid making difficult decisions or taking action in situations where they feel conflicted or uncertain. They may be highly indecisive and may struggle with taking a clear position or stance on a particular issue. They may also be prone to procrastination or avoidance behaviors, as a way to maintain their own sense of peace and avoid difficult or uncomfortable situations.

In addition, Type 9s may avoid feelings of discomfort or inner tension. They may be highly attuned to the needs and feelings of others, and may struggle with acknowledging or expressing their own emotions or desires. They may also be prone to dissociation or zoning out as a way to avoid feeling overwhelmed or stressed.

It is important for Type 9s to recognize and address their tendencies to avoid conflict or inner turmoil, and to cultivate a greater sense of assertiveness and self-awareness in their lives. This may involve learning to assert their own needs and boundaries in their relationships, practicing decision-making and taking action when necessary, and exploring their own emotions and desires in a more grounded and self-aware way.